SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.....
(Enjoy)
One of the greatest headaches of many young ladies in
relationship is the issue of sex. While they find themselves entangled in love,
they also would not want to offend God by fornicating. Meanwhile, most young
men of today are always demanding sex before marriage as a proof of love. If a
lady denies her boyfriend (fiancée) sex, he tends to think she either does not
love him or she is seeing another guy. And this throws the lady into so much
confusion. She genuinely loves the guy but wouldn't want to give in to sex. If she
denies him, she may lose him and if she gives in too she disobeys God. Sorry to
our ladies. Gentleman, please know that it is absolutely a lie from the pit of
hell that if your fiancée does not give you sex it shows she doesn't love you.
How can you use sex as a LOVEOMETRE? Have you never slept with ladies you
didn't truly love? If you haven't then let me tell you that many people are
having sex with people they never love. And the men are themselves the worst
culprits. If sex is a proof of love then we have to conclude that prostitutes
love all the men they sleep with. If sex is a proof of love then we have to go
about sleeping with our best friends and even family members to show how deeply
we love them. Even married couples, do not have sex to prove their love. They
rather have sex because sex is part of marriage and it is meant for both procreation
and recreation - child birth and enjoyment. Don't you know that there are
married couples who are not genuinely in love but they still have sex as a
matter of duty or just for cover-ups?
Surely, sex plays a major role in love affairs. But Eccl 3:1
says, "For everything there is a season..." It is never the right
season to have sex in a relationship. This is because sex is a blood covenant
between husband and wife not boyfriend and girlfriend. Gen. 4:1 says,
"Adam knew his wife". It does not say "Adam knew his
girlfriend". Stop going that far with the lady. If you want to know about
a woman's love for you sex is never the answer. Leave her alone to serve God right
or your own sake if you truly want to marry her. Song of Songs 2:7 says,
"I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelle...that you AWAKEN
NOT LOVE UNTIL IT IS TIME".
The gazelle is a very swift animal. It runs at least 96 km
per hour. Bible compares romance to the gazelle. If you start romance at the
wrong time you may crush because you will not be able to stop it from running
your life at top speed. So until you are married, don't AWAKEN LOVE. Sex has
been the main reason for most broken hearts and disappointments. Sex is called
love-making because it involves the body, soul and spirit. Do you want your
soul and spirit to be tied to somebody who is not married to you? Can you stand
the consequences, Mr. Young Man? Hear the Bible: "O my son, O son of my
womb, O son of my vows, DO NOT SPEND YOUR STRENGTH ON WOMEN, YOUR VIGOUR ON
THOSE WHO DESTROY KINGS." (Prov. 31:2) Sex before marriage can destroy
you, even your Christian life. The funny thing is some Brothers in Christ even
worry the Sisters in Christ for sex. So God says, "My son...son of my
vow". You are a son of God so don't waste your energy on women. You should
rather be teaching her chastity and help her serve God well.
Seeking love from sex is like looking for Jesus in an empty
tomb. Take it easy. When you marry you will be fed up with sex. Your wife will
be chasing you with it and you will be running away, saying, "Oh I'm
tired, why?". Take time okay, Wait patiently. It will soon be laid at your
doorstep and you will notice how stupid it is to chase sex when you are not
married. If you want a woman to prove her love to you, allow her some space to
be herself. Do not force your will on her or control her. Her love, by nature,
will push her to do things that will signal to you that you are her top
priority. She will be ready to marry you, than just have fun with you. She will
not be interested in you showering things on her but rather, she would want
both of you to set your life and future right. She will support your dreams and
visions and help you build up your Christian life. In fact, she will exhibit
the spirit of humility and you will also discover she is a precious jewel in a
glass jar, reserved for you alone.
So from today, even if she herself brings sex, tell her..."Do
not awaken love until it is time." And if you guys love each other, plan
about marrying and submit your plans to God. He will bless it and put you two
together as one.. Ladies...you should also read before sending to him I wish u
read all to the last.....our ladies are dying in the hands of some unmerciful
men.
Sex has turned many ladies into a mystery of thinking what
they feel for a particular guy is true love.
You meet a guy, he takes you out; He had a great sex with
you, it was like heaven to you. He makes you feel happy because you enjoyed him
so much you start assuming both of you are meant to be together as husband
& wife. You start dreaming of your future with him while he's just having
fun. Your feelings for him has blindfolded you from seeing things from the
reality point of view. You find yourself infatuated with him just because you
don't want to feel used & dumped.
Sometimes you need to sit down & ask yourself; what do i
really love about this guy?
Do I see Christ in him? Is he a guy I can boldly take to my
pastor? Can I introduce him as my husband to people who are responsible? You
know the guy is not capable of being a good husband & father; yet you want
to kill yourself because of him. But sometimes you need to differentiate
between what you just feel and what you really deserve.
Don't start dreaming of your future with a guy who is just
catching his fun. Don't attach a permanent feeling to a temporal person. Don't
open up your heart to a guy who doesn't open his bible. Stop chasing after a
guy who doesn't chase after God’s Word.
Look, maybe as a lady your lifestyle is not pleasing to God,
today is your day of salvation. Don't wait till when you marry & divorce
before you realize you need Jesus. You don't have to wait till when you become
a single mother before you aspire to be an evangelist.
Give your life to Jesus now and He will give you a man who
will take care of you. You cannot receive anything from God until you first
receive His only Son because Jesus is everything that God has given for you.
Pls share with all youth on ur contact list
Give to ur female friends...Give to ur male friends..
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